#12 The main chick is never your concern. Don’t expect your man to come to you and talk about his troubles about his wife or girlfriend. You are not his shrink, and you are not his friend. Most of all, it is none of your business. In the same vein, don’t ask about his main chick, or even mention her name in a conversation.
#13 Never get caught. Any side chick can be great in bed, but only a great side chick will not get caught. Know your escape plans if ever things get rough. This means that you shouldn’t let your guard down, whether or not you’re with your man. And if on the off-chance that you ever do get caught *which, again, should never be in the equation in the first place*, at least don’t get caught on your knees or with your pants down, if you know what we mean.
#14 Be clean and filthy. This is oxymoronic, but let’s explain. You have to look clean but act dirty. And by that, we mean in bed. He doesn’t need another wife or girlfriend to go to—he wants a vixen in bed. He wants someone who will keep him company, yet keep things light, not ask too much from him, not tire him up or tie him down. That’s his main chick’s job. Your job is to please him and make him keep coming back for you.
Being a side chick brings with it more complications than if you were just his main chick. However, there are some women who really just prefer to be a side chick. It’s free from the expectations and disappointments, not to mention intricacies, of being in a serious monogamous relationship. On top of that, there’s the no-commitment, full-secrecy excitement that the whole setup brings.
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