Being a side chick isn’t easy. It isn’t all gifts and s3x and exciting escapades, though those are often part of the deal. However, there’s more to being a side chick than sitting back and receiving gifts. And this is when all the drama, heartache, and scandal come in. If you’re a great side chick, none of these should concern you. You just enjoy your man as much as he enjoys you.
So how do you play by the side chick rules without getting your hair pulled out by the main chick? Check out these 14 golden rules to live by.
#1 Don’t fall in love. If you are the side chick, you should stay the side chicks. Falling in love with your man will only ruin the very foundation of the relationship, which is basically built on no-strings-attached, casual s3x. Or, at most, a friends with benefits kind of setup. Catching feelings will just bring in more expectations and more complications that your man just doesn’t want.
#2 Know where you stand. Keep your expectations in check. Your play guy will not be there if you have periods or someone has hurt you hence you need a shoulder to cry on. He will not be there for Valentine’s dates either. Know your lane. Y
#3 Be undercover. Being a side chick means that you have to keep things on the down-low. You have to be a ninja, be under the radar, and communicate and meet up with your man without anyone else knowing.
#4 Cut to the chase. Part of the side chick rules include understanding that you’re not going to be courted. You’re not your man’s girlfriend or even wife, so cut to the chase. Being a side chick means one thing: getting in bed and having a good time. There’s no time to play hard-to-get, so this means either you give your man some lovin’ or you’re out.
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